As you know, in recognition of Mother's Day, all donations in May toward our Girls’ Education program are being matched thanks to a generous donor. Thank you to those who have already contributed and made a difference in the lives of the thousands of girls on the program.
To show you what a difference our Girls' Education program is having, we wanted to revisit one of our favorite “girl” stories that we get asked about a lot at Room to Read –- the story of a Nepali Girls’ Education program scholar named Sabina.
For those that need a refresher on Sabina, in 2007 PBS’s FRONTLINE/World produced a short documentary called "Nepal: A Girl’s Life" that documented a nine year old Sabina and what her life was like now that she was on our Girls’ Education program and had the opportunity to go to school and learn to read.
At age nine, Sabina sat on a pile of stones and while chipping away at a rock with a hammer in her hand, told us that she wanted to be a doctor. But now the young lady asserts that she wants to work on airplanes with a kind of authority that is difficult to challenge!
You’ll see from reading the story below that there is no stopping Sabina from reaching out for the stars.
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Sabina walks into the room quietly but when spotting Reema, Room to Read’s Girls’ Education program officer in Nepal, breaks into a huge smile and runs over to greet Reema with a warm hug.
“I was happy to hear that you are here! It is like meeting someone from my own family,” she says with a giggle before giving her another hug and then turning around to find out who the new faces in the group were.
“What is your name?” she asks us even before we can introduce ourselves. She extends her hand out for a firm hand shake. It is endearing to see Sabina the child, grow into a confident and graceful young teenager.
Sabina, who just turned thirteen, is soft spoken but she's certainly at ease with the Room to Read Nepal staff as she laughs and jokes with them. She even sings a song for the team and does a quick folk dance to update us about her new found hobbies and interests.
Sabina is now in 6th grade and her interest in reading story books has not diminished. “I take one book home each week. I would love to read more but I do not have much free time,” says Sabina softly.
With both her parents away at work for most of the day, Sabina and her brother have to share the house chores. “I get up in the morning around 5:45 am and then study for two hours while my brother cooks lunch for the family. At eight on the dot, both of us leave for school,” says Sabina before adding, “In the evening it is my turn to cook the meal before my parents return. It is very tiring to get back from school and start cooking. I don’t have the energy to study after that.”
“How will you become a doctor then?” I counter.
“Ooops! Who said I want to become a doctor? I said that when I was a kid and did not know about other options. Now I want to work on airplanes as a hostess!” she says with a flourish.
“But why?” I persist.
She laughs aloud and then changes her tone, “I want to see the world and working on airplanes is one way I can do that.” Sabina raises her hand to indicate that she has not finished explaining. “More importantly, my priority now is to finish my studies quickly and be able to find a profession that allows me to earn money for the family.”
"Do you still get to go out and play your favorite games?” we ask, anxious to find out if our Sabina has actually shaken away her childhood fantasies and dreams completely.
“No way! I am too big to go out and play games now. When I do get time now, I watch Hindi movies with my friends on the TV at my neighbor’s house.”
On being asked if she still had to go to stone quarry, Sabina nods. “My parents discourage me from going there now. They want me to study. But I go there once in a while when we have a school holiday so that my mother can take some rest.”
As we get ready to leave, we tease Sabina and tell her that the next time we meet she will have decided on pursuing another career path.
“Not a chance!” says Sabina and then grabs a piece of paper and writes ‘Airhostess: Sabina Timalsinha’ before adding “Keep this paper as a record!”
On our way back to the city, we stop at the stone quarry to visit Sabina’s parents. They continue to work at the same stone quarry on the outskirts of Kathmandu. Their day starts as early as 7:00 am (6:00 am in summer) and both husband and wife keep chipping at the rocks untill 6:00 pm with just a one hour lunch break.
“It is tough but we don’t have any other skill so we have to continue to earn a living this way,” says Sabina’s mother, Rita.
Between them they earn $1,600 Nepalese Rupees every month ($21 USD). “We are grateful to Room to Read for supporting Sabina,” says her father Krishna Prasad. He explains, “This opportunity has also made us more aware of our responsibilities as parents. For if people from far off countries are supporting our child in school then we should also do our best to ensure that she does get a good education. So now we save $50 Nepalese Rupees every week from our earnings to ensure our kids can go to college later.”
Before we parted with Sabina she confirmed this change in her family. “ I want to thank Room to Read for this opportunity. It has changed not just my life but also that of my parents because now they are committed to our study.”
-- Reena Luke
To read more stories like that of Sabina, please download our 2009 Girls' Education Yearbook (pdf).
And, don't forget for the month of May in honor of Mother's Day, all donations to our Girls' Education Program are matched up to $150,000! Click here to donate for yourself or in honor of a special loved one.